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The following are some interesting entries that were posted in our forum:
Dutch Relatives in Malaysia
Posted by: Aloma Lively nee Drieberg op December 31, 2005 om 11:45:37:
I have Dutch cousins in Kuala Lumpur, descended from my grand-uncle(Justin John Wilmot Schokman m. Christobel Nell LEEMBRUGGEN) son of my great-grandfather, Andrew Justin Van Geyzel Schokman. Andrew's daughter, Ada Phoebe Estelle Schokman was my paternal grandmother. My great-grandfather who worked for the EIC spoke both Dutch and English, so he and his family moved from Colombo, Ceylon and lived in Melaka. He was also Secretary to the White Rajah of Sarawak, around early part of the last century. My great-grandfather is buried in Melaka.
Honoring our Heritage
Posted by: Bianca op December 01, 2004 om 13:38:06:
I am Dutch-Indonesian, born in Netherlands, lived most of my life in the USA (43 yrs). My head is Western in all ways, but my heart is from the far East. That's the only way I can explain living between two worlds. It is hard to pinpoint exactly what cultural mechanisms mark one as having Dutch heritage, particularly when it's been buried through history. In the Indo (Dutch-Indo) community there are certain foods and expressions and use of the famous water bottle in the W.C., but they're just symbolic. Because of the complexity of our mixed heritage, it seems like it's more of a sense of feeling, of being; you know you're very much in the minority of minorities of the greater society one lives in. Just the act of opening up dialogue is a treasure in itself, to share our roots and be recognized publicly as a distinct group. In a sense, we are the pioneers for "diversity" which has become quite the buzz word now in sociopolitical and pop culture lingo, at least here in the States. So, keep an open mind and just go with the flow and reach out to each other with your family histories and cultural experiences. We may see that we are part of one big family after all. Those V.O.C guys were pretty busy, as we can see now...
Where is the good stuff?
Posted by: Arnold KV op September 08, 2004 om 20:57:47:
I read about what happened to the Dutch so far and the get together in Malacca, but will it change anything?
Will this Dutch Project actually try to bring back some of the lost culture? Will there be cultural events? Or will it remain a glorified event for familytree owners who happen to have a connection with Malaysia?
Let's hope there will be more!
A.
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It is all with the people
Posted by: Dutch Eurasian op September 16, 2004 om 16:15:39:
In Reply to: Where is the good stuff? Posted by: Arnold KV on September 08, 2004 om 20:57:47:
Criticism is easy to offer but few are really willing to come forward to actually give assistance and support for a forgotten community in danger of fading into oblivion. Those who have actually made the effort to make this Project a reality deserves all the credit due to them.
The reality of things is that there is very little Dutch culture left in Malaysia today. Most Dutch descendants never even knew anything about their history, their heritage, their past culture nor their own lineage. All they knew was that their name is Dutch and they are damm proud of it. But now things are begining to chance. What we see happening now is really a cultural revolution and a movement to reconnect to their heritage and in gathering their people together to safeguard their future.
The last known Dutch Burgher family in Malaysia who celebrate Sinterklaasfeest did so about 30 years ago, and did so as how it was always done traditionally, confined to their own homes, privately and within their own immediate family.
The 'Reconnecting Through Our Roots' gathering in Malacca is, in my opinion, a movement in the right direction. For the very first time so many Dutch descendants came together and reconnected with each other. Bringing back the lost culture is one problem, but at least the first step was made to bring them together, to re-educate them about their heritage and to show to the world that they are still around, even though they were thought to be extinct. Where better to begin this journey of self discovery than with family histories?
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he biggest success of the gathering is, at least those people now have gained an insight and understanding of their heritage and the Dutch descendants went home full of pride in learning about their forefather's contribution to Malaysian and world history. That was the biggest and best chance made.
Now, the power to move forward and reclaim their heritage lies in the hands of the Dutch descendants. Their actions will determine the fate of their future and of the future of their own descendants.
However, I have faith. From the number of participants who came to Malacca for the gathering and from their involvement in the project, I remain optimistic of the community.
It is not all about the names and dates of people who are our ancestors but the people left here and now - the community.
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With the people... that means what?
Posted by: Arnold KV op September 24, 2004 om 21:18:40:
In Reply to: It is all with the people Posted by: Dutch Eurasian on September 16, 2004 om 16:15:39:
I do not wish to send out critisism.
After going through this web site, reading about heritage fadding away, people moving, integration, and so on... I do not see how a get together, even if yearly, would solve that. Sure you get a bunch of Dutch people there or at least of Dutch descend, but wat has actually been done to reboot the Dutch community? Why didn't anyone write about regained culture? I tell you why, because y'all been to busy with the wrong things.
When I read about the Sinterklaas thing, why didn't this organisation blend in some of this? Where is the cultural aspect? Did anyone learn anything that can be considered culture? I'll bet you that nobody left with anything that could be, even in an altered version, passed on to another generation, nothing that they would start doing at home!
You want to change many things... that I got to learn, but there isn't a single piece of information on this site that helps to re-introduce lost culture as the Sinterklaas, Kerstmis, Pasen, and all other holidays.
Basicly you say we should do something, but nowhere you say how. It is a serious flaw in your otherwise admirable organisation.
It's with the people, what does this mean? It's the peoples choice to bring back their culture? Great attitude! Assuming they would want to do so, where to start huh?
If you own a car without fuel, there's no reason driving it, know what I mean?
With deep respect
A.KV
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thanks for the involvement Arnold.
Posted by: Adrian M op September 30, 2004 om 17:57:20:
In Reply to: With the people... that means what? Posted by: Arnold KV on September 24, 2004 om 21:18:40:
Firstly I wish to state my personal appreciation to all those who have contributed n added action to words that we so often hear that will be happening and has now made it to MDDP.This website is a start esp.since no one had taken any trouble in starting the ball rolling.Reading the messages by Arnold n Dutch Eurasian, I can help but see the positive side of both your inputs.Improving and having greater knowledge in our pursuit to rediscover whats nearly lost in history is the way to go.Well, its true that alot of areas seems to be "grey.....missing....etc and its good Arnold that u hv identified a few areas to start off.maybe thats what this site needs...inputs and sharing as much as we have to ensure we achieve something before we stay lost in time.lets fuel up n Arnold,get a number and make a difference to positively contribute to this area that has my 3 generations all fired up and eagerly waiting for the next get-together.
bye now guys n i'll get online again tomm.
"anythings viable if we just try"
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Response from the co-ordinator
Posted by: Dennis De Witt op November 02, 2004 om 13:01:43:
In Reply to: A late responce and a new idea Posted by: Arnold KV on November 01, 2004 om 12:56:51:
Thank you Arnold, Adrian and Dutch Eurasian for your participation, comments, criticisms and ideas. I followed your discussions with keen interest and I was curious to find out where it would go.
First of all please allow me to explain my position in the MDDP. I am simply acting as the Project's co-ordinator, whereby I assist the participating Dutch Descendants by facilitating events, gathering, procuring contacts and the dissemination of information regarding our unique history, heritage and culture. With the transition of the Project's website to its current home, the administration and hosting of this site is now done by the kind people at escape2malaysia.com. Hence, I am not this site's webmaster.
Things that are universally and traditionally associated with the Dutch are Dutch windmills, Dutch clogs, Dutch cheese, Frisian cows and Delft Blue porcelains. These are all so typically Dutch and are practically national treasures for the Netherlands. However, there were never Dutch windmills here (not counting the bad miniature replica found in Malacca today), Dutch Descendants here never wore Dutch clogs, production of cheese is not feasible in our climate, we have Asian cows and Delft Blue was actually first designed to copy the imported quality Chinese Ming (blue and white) porcelain.
Dutch Descendants in Malaysia and through their generations were already a hybrid race which was the result of the fusion of European and Asian bloodline and their joint cultural influences. Although there are many similarities between the Dutch Descendants from Malaysia and the Dutch Eurasians from Indonesia, because of the different social and political atmosphere, both communities developed in opposite directions from each other, even though they were really cousins divided by historical British and Dutch realms. Where Dutch Eurasians in Indonesia were accepted by their country and given the opportunity to be repatriated to the Netherlands, in British controlled Malaysia, Dutch descendants were initially needed and therefore induced to stay with much of their standing remaining status quo. However, it was not long before they too were regarded as mere second class citizens in the Britannic colony.
The Dutch were (and probably still are) an adaptive group of people. Since the old days, when they were with other Dutch, they spoke Dutch; with the British, they spoke English and with the Malays, they spoke Malay, etc. When Malacca was ceded to the British, the Dutch community there did not pack up to leave but made the best of their new situation for their continued survival. It was the same in other Dutch colonies such as Ceylon, Cape Town and even New Amsterdam (now New York).
The Dutch were generally tolerant of other people's beliefs and culture. As historically noted, instead of getting people to adopt their culture, the Dutch preferred to take the best from other people's culture and adopt it as their own. They don't like to force their ideology onto others, don't like to stand out from others, don't make a scene and value their privacy. Therefore, they were often able to blend in with different cultures and environments.
Unfortunately, because of their adoptive and receptive traits, it would lead to the cultural downfall of their descendants. Dutch Descendants in Malaysia today mostly speak English and to some extend adopt English and local social values. Because of our severed ties with the Netherlands and other former Dutch colonies, there is practically nothing Dutch left to relate to and no pertinent need to perpetuate old customs and traditions. After hundreds of years of non-contact, we have mostly forgotten our roots and our history. Therefore, as in any such case, change to revitalise and revive past culture and traditions is a daunting task.
The Project feels that because of our dwindling numbers, the first and most important step to be taken is to seek out the Dutch Descendants still left in Malaysia. We also try to reconnect these descendants who have now become dispersed. At the same time, strive to disseminate some information about their history, roots, heritage and culture. With this, the Project hopes to initially give them some understanding about their heritage, provide a sense of pride for their roots and instil some interest for them to be more involved in their community.
However, this is sometimes difficult because there are also some people who have Dutch sounding names or have their roots to the old Dutch communities but refuse to believe that they have anything to do with the Dutch. Sometimes, people may find it embarrassing to say that they are Dutch descent simply because our history has made out our ancestors to be a vile, cruel and greedy race.
It is true that not everybody is interested in their family's genealogy. Different people, different strokes. At gatherings, people do not talk only about genealogy. In fact, this Project has actually nothing to do with genealogy research. However, we do recognise that there is a widespread interest in this topic and by doing research on one's family history, it helps them discover more about their Dutch roots and heritage. It can help bring people together and is a good conversation starter. Therefore, where possible, the Project supports any such research. As a result, the Project has been involved in 2 successful international family reunions - the Neubronner and Westerhout families.
Because the Dutch Descendants here are really a hybrid race with a rather unique European-Asian cultural background, reviving traditional customs is not as easy as simply plucking out all Dutch traditions found in the Netherlands and getting today's generation of Dutch Descendants here to adhere to them.
Some Dutch traditions actually have no significance to us nor to our ancestors. For instance, celebrating Queen's Day is something modern and even the colour orange which is suppose to reflect Dutch patriotism and historical alliance to the Prince of Orange only happened at a time after our ancestors had severed ties with the Netherlands. However, Dutch Descendants here have no problem wearing something orange as a small demonstration of their pride to be of Dutch descent.
The most significant tradition that is always associated to culture is language. Sadly, this legacy too was not perpetuated. Because of the British colonial era that our parents and forefathers experienced, we were thought to excel in the (British) Queen's English and even today, England (and Australia) remains the choice place for students to further their studies. Admittedly, Dutch language is by no means the easiest language to learn and because there is no real need to use this language, even when meeting Dutch nationals, Dutch Descendants have simply choose to forgo relearning our ancestral tongue. But mind you, my family did inherit the ability to swear in Dutch!
With the help of Dutch nationals supporting the Project, Dutch language classes were held and a few participants joined. The classes were not for those who wanted to study Dutch to an advance level, but simply for those interested to learn a little about the language of their ancestors.
It is not to say that the Project does not strive to research the traditions and cultures of our ancestors, and indeed we have made some breakthroughs. For instance, it is long known that 'Breudher' is a cake-like-bread that has a strong tradition with the Ceylon Dutch Burghers. Now, it is understood that it is indeed of Dutch origin and the names comes from an ancient term referring to Dutch traditional sweet bread. It is also known that it is similar to the Dutch 'Turban' cake and even the Dutch Eurasians in Malacca have their own version called 'Blueda'. Both the 'Breudher' and the 'Turban' were served during our "Reconnecting Through Our Roots" event held at Malacca last July. Also worth mentioning is a turkey dish called 'Artaple kalakoon' that is done for Christmas inherited by a Dutch Eurasian family in Malacca. We already have all these on the website.
Although there are no records found showing our ancestors celebrated 'Sinterklaasfeest', but because this celebration predates the arrival of the Dutch to the East, we feel it is safe to deduce that it must have also been celebrated by them. We also have on record that at least one Ceylon Dutch Burgher family in Malaysia was still celebrating 'Sinterklaasfeest' as recent as about 30 years ago. With the support of the Royal Netherlands Embassy, a handful of Dutch Descendants were invited in 2003 to witness this celebration organised by the Dutch Association in Kuala Lumpur.
The Project have also arranged for its participants to be invited to Dutch related social and cultural events. Although all these efforts does not translate to a rigid methodology of instilling Dutch customs nor do we want to produce a DIY manual for Dutch traditions, the actual objective for now is to provide some exposure to the people and to experience for themselves some Dutch traditions and to cultivate their interest to find out more about their own Dutch-Asian culture.
The role of the Project would be to act as a centre to receive parts of the puzzle from the individuals, put the missing parts together so as to construct a panorama of this cultural kaleidoscope. We hope that this will help fill in some of those grey and missing areas.
At this moment, there have never been anything written about the ancestral traditions and culture of the Dutch Descendants, however, for those interested in history, some clues may sometimes be found between the written text and in illustrations. For instance, from British records, we now know that the Dutch ladies in Malacca during the late 18th century preferred to dress in a "sarong-kebaya" as it was not only fashionable but practical too.
Our critics often remind us that, unlike the Portuguese Eurasians of Malacca who still have their patois, religion, traditional songs and dances, the Dutch Descendants have no such culture left behind. We are often spited because it was our ancestors who 360 years ago had attempted to restrict their Roman Catholic faith and force the Malacca Portuguese to adopt Dutch culture but now it is they who have retained their ancient traditions. To this I give them credit and I have every respect for their historic, colourful and interesting culture. However, I must disagree with their claim that the Dutch Descendants have no culture (and therefore should adopt theirs) and I denounce their attempts to erase our existence by claiming that all Eurasians in Malaysia are of Portuguese descent and should come under their supposedly righteous banner.
I hope this explanation has been helpful to clear the air about the Malaysian Dutch Descendants and the MDDP. We appreciate your support and participation. Thank you.
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A late responce and a new idea
Posted by: Arnold KV op November 01, 2004 om 12:56:51:
In Reply to: thanks for the involvement Arnold. Posted by: Adrian M on September 30, 2004 om 17:57:20:
I myself do not know the details to all Dutch customs. I wish I would, I would post them to the Dennis or the webmaster (would that be also Dennis?). I suppose Dennis could look for some material on the web to gather info a put some basics on this site.
Perhaps Dennis can actually kick-start a small cultural heritage revival when the next gathering takes place.
Speaking of ideas, maybe it would be nice if those who been to a gathering or those who plan to visit the next one, could talk about what they expect from the gathering. I assume not everybody has a familytree-thing going on and some would actually want to learn morn about their lost culture.
Obviously I am not the only one intrested in this! Hope to return soon for more feedback!
A.KV
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Thanks to the MDDP
Posted by: Mrs. Joyce Westerhout Freeland op December 23, 2005 om 01:04:28:
In Reply to: Response from the co-ordinator Posted by: Dennis De Witt on November 02, 2004 om 13:01:43:
Congratulations on the MDDP Newsletter and the "links" available in it! In commenting on the above response, I would like to say that although the MDDP "has actually nothing to do with genealogy research", it has been most generous in passing along information to those of us who enjoy family history and genealogy. This has been a great help both in understanding the culture of our ancestors and in making actual connections and furthering our information on family history. Much credit goes to the MDDP and to its co-ordinator, Dennis De Witt, for giving us all a clearer picture of our forefathers and foremothers, their lives and times. As a resident of the USA, I cannot take part in the interesting activities of the group, but I do appreciate the knowledge they collect and share. A heart-felt THANKS is hereby offered.
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